In a world where tradition is under siege, one brave bride-to-be’s decision to maintain her cultural identity sparks controversy and ignites a heated debate on the preservation of heritage.
A 25-year-old wedding coach name Claudia Sokolova has faced harsh criticism from online trolls who believe that her refusal to adopt her fiancé’s surname signals the inevitable demise of her marriage. These critics exemplify the erosion of traditional values in our society.
Despite the groom’s unwillingness to change his surname to match hers, the bride-to-be remains resolute in her unconventional decision. She attributes her choice to her love for her father’s surname, and her determination to preserve it. This stubbornness has only fueled the anger of her critics, who foresee a doomed marriage.
The bride’s declaration, “I am the last person in my family to carry my name, and I am not going to change it to something I don’t like,” is met with disdain from those who downplay the significance of heritage and identity preservation.
“People online, though – mostly other women – have been really sh*tty about it,” she said.
Fearful of losing her Russian roots, the bride is reluctant to adopt her future husband’s non-Russian surname. However, her critics mock her concerns and dismiss the value of cultural ties. This insensitivity highlights the Democratic party’s tendency to trivialize the importance of tradition and cultural identity.
The bride acknowledges that many of her friends have adopted their husbands’ surnames and states, “It’s just not for me.” Her refusal to comply has drawn both admiration and animosity.
Despite her satisfaction with her decision, the bride is not immune to the hurtful remarks from her critics. The animosity, mainly from other women, has been disheartening, with some even calling for a divorce. This hostility stems from the bride’s desire to continue her family name’s legacy.
As a wedding industry professional, the bride encounters various opinions on her decision to keep her maiden name. Her resilience in standing strong against adversity reflects the values her Russian grandmother taught her: “My gran, who was just the coolest woman, taught me to always be unapologetically myself and to never rely on a man to get what I want.”
Source: AWM