A woman from Australia shares how she balances her marriage to a porn star and his line of work.
Katy Bampton is a 29-year-old fitness industry worker from Australia. As part of her job, she has to be ready to strip down to a bikini for photoshoots. However, that’s not the only aspect of her life that requires her to bare it all.
Her husband, Robbie Bampton, is a porn star who sleeps with different women every week. Despite the unique challenges that come with her husband’s line of work, Katy eloped with Robbie after a three-month engagement because they are in love.
In an Instagram post, Katy shared how she sometimes forgets that she is married to a porn star, “I forget sometimes that this is our life, and we live this way every day.” Meanwhile, Robbie explains that the sex he has with other women for pay is very different from the love-making he shares with his wife, “The sex that I have at work, and the sex that I have at home, are completely different.”
When Katy first met Robbie on Instagram, she was initially wary of him because of the work he did. She judged him for being a sex worker, but she admits that her perceptions were influenced by societal conditioning. However, she decided to get to know him, and this changed her perception.
Since Robbie’s line of work involves sleeping with other women, they had to have an open discussion about boundaries. Katy is happy with the way things are as long as Robbie regularly gets tested for sexually-transmitted infections and uses condoms with his various sex partners when possible. However, there are times when porn directors want the scenes to look “natural,” and condoms are not used.
Katy clarifies that the lifestyle that they live is not what people perceive it to be, “People on social media think this is our lifestyle, and we’re like this 24/7, and he’s constantly having sex with other people, and we’re constantly in the swingers environment… but we’re really not.”
When Robbie is not filming videos with other sex partners, they spend a lot of time together. They enjoy going to the gym, cooking food, and filming TikTok videos. They also have a “Katy day” each week where Robbie dedicates himself to his wife instead of the women at his job.
For Katy, their “Katy day” is crucial, “A specific day where we commit to each other, stay present, voice our thoughts and feelings, have awkward conversations, learn more about each other, experience new things, dive deep through tantra connections, and share all our love. Amongst the crazy thing called life, we find it important that we put aside time for ourselves to connect. Rob is my rock, and our relationship is the most secure, beautiful thing ever because we make it that way.”
Although their lifestyle may be unconventional, Katy and Robbie are proof that love can exist in all forms and shapes. They have found a way to make their unique relationship work while respecting each other’s boundaries and desires. Despite the challenges they face, they are happy and content with their unconventional love story.
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Source: AWM